The Legend of Honora and Patrick's Burial
M y grandfather would take my father to the cemetery often as a small child. St. Peters Cemetery was almost always the destination. My father remembers my grandfather giving him the "whose who" run down, standing in the middle of the old Welsh plot.
But most of all, he vividly remembers Honora's tombstone:
"It was old and crumbling, and I liked it because it looked like the tree was growing out of it. I remember the date on it, it was old."
He also remembers Patrick's stone, which was right beside Honora's. He remembers that stone as being small, and almost to the point of being unreadable. Right beside Patrick's tombstone was the couple's oldest son, Martin.
Two of those stones he remembers so well are no longer there -- and he's very adamant that they truly were there.
He remembers visiting the cemetery after a bad storm had gone through the area, and he remembers seeing tombstones down all through the cemetery. He said that next time he visited the cemetery was after a cleanup effort, and those two stones were gone. He also remembers a friend who attended the church telling him that they put a stone under Annie's tombstone to keep it from falling over.
I've had people [from the church] tell me that, their stones aren't there, there's no record, they aren't buried here. But I know I saw it. It's not that I think I remembered that. I know it was there. I know for a fact I saw that.
Although the graves appear to be unmarked, the tree on the Welsh plot where my father saw the stones as a child, does have two pronounced, sunken areas underneath it.
Unfortunately with burial records missing and no marker, we have been unable to prove the graves' existence. We have looked in to probing the area, but the cost seems to be prohibitive.
Many stones were scattered in the woods behind the cemetery after the cleanup effort, however they no longer seem to be located there. The whereabouts of those tombstones currently are unknown, but were likely buried or destroyed.
Annie's tombstone is once again leaning, and our only current possibility is to see if we can get the stone propping it up out. Could that stone be either Honora or Patrick's elusive stone?
I have also looked for a possible alternative burial location to no avail. A few people who I would expect to appear at the original burial plot are missing, in addition to Patrick and Honora: Two of the original sons: James and wife Margaret, and Patrick. Martin's son, Michael's, mother is missing as well. Could any of these people be buried in the plot unmarked as well?